He who does not possess charity, does not possess sanctifying grace either, because they are absolutely inseparable. ~ The Divine Intimacy, 4. Charity the Essence of SanctityIf God is love, and sanctity stems from that, it surely follows that we must practice love like God's to achieve sanctity. And not just the lovey-dovey, mushy feeling of love. I'm talking about the love that sacrifices for the good of the other. The love that does what is best for the other, even if the other doesn't want quite what they get. Love is keeping a person from burning themselves even if they want to run into the fire.
Desire and love are not necessarily the same thing. And love can be distorted. We pursue that which we think good. We love that which we think good. But our perception of the good can become distorted by the world around us and by the Evil One's attempts to ruin our souls for himself. This is why we have to follow God's example of love, for He IS love itself. If we take Him for our guide, how can we fail to pursue that which is truly good and to express that which is truly love?
As we move speedily through this Advent season, I challenge you to take time each day in meditation and devotion with our Lord. He dwells within each of us, waiting for us to listen to His voice. We have only to seek Him faithfully.